walking you back home…

The 4 Steps Back Home To Your Authentic Self:

Accept, Allow, Embrace, Love

In order to walk back home to ourselves, to remember our intrinsic gifts, abilities and the overall magic of life and existence, we have to walk through certain passageways. We have to Accept first where we are. We have to Allow it to just be without judgment. We have to Embrace it all—“the good, the bad and the ugly”— and learn to Love our entire humanity. Then we find ourselves back in the lap of Love; loving all parts of us, knowing that no part is “bad” or “wrong” or anything to be ashamed of. We live from this place where Love gets to be the container for everything. For your entire human (and metaphysical) experience.

These four principles become the foundation for our journey back home. No matter what arises within our experience, be it a thought, a feeling, a trigger or a reaction, can we Accept, Allow, Embrace and Love it?

These are the guides that become the alchemists of our experience, bringing us from disharmony with ourselves into full coherence with our entire being.

Acceptance

When we accept that there is no good/bad, right/wrong, success/failure, that we cannot f*** up life because no one is going to grade us for it and there’s no exam to pass, nor punishment or even praise, we get to relax and see that all that life is, is an experience.
It’s an experience through which we get to learn, grow, expand and evolve. This to the soul, to consciousness (Source) itself, is interesting. From this perspective life becomes a playground, a kind of learning room in which we get to explore ourselves and existence itself.
If there’s no punishment, than all struggles are just points of reflection. Learning points to let go of old conditioning and expand into vaster ways of being that liberate us from the human programmes we’ve been indoctrinated into for many, many generations.

You Are Not Alone, You Are Supported And Always Will Be

Some of us feel alone. We feel alone in this journey of life. We feel alone and unsupported when the path gets bumpy and life feels rough. We feel alone in our feelings, in our vulnerability and in the unknown.
When we come home to ourselves, we quickly see that we’re not just coming home to ourselves—our True, Authentic Self—we’re coming home to Source, itself. In that embodiment, we intrinsically know that we are never alone and we are always supported by unseen forces that carry us through all the trials and tribulations, the joys and celebrations of life, from birth until “death,” which is simply a portal and an awakening out of this (very real) dream.

You Are The Vehicle: The Partnership Between Your Soul & Your Human Self

The best analogy I’ve heard on the relationship between our soul Self and our human Self, was spoken by a man called RJ Spina who said, “When you get in your car you don’t believe yourself to be the car.”
What he was referring to was our relationship between our soul and our human self. This human body is the car, our soul is the driver. But our soul knows that it is not the body just like we know that we are not the car.
When we recognise that we are not driving this experience, we get to let go of our need to control. We get to let go of fear which wants to control all things, all outcomes, all trajectories. We get to be the vessel, the vehicle and the conduit for our soul to have this experience of density. This is a huge paradigm shift and change of perspective. You don’t need to control, you simply need to engage and be receptive.
You are in partnership with your soul. You are not the lone rider in the middle of the desert. You are not the only one holding onto the reigns. You are being carried and the more you come home to yourself, the more you will feel the wings that are carrying you through life. Not just of all the unseen support you have around you, but of your very own true nature. The homecoming, is your remembering of this.

This Isn’t a Time Of Awakening, It’s A Time Of Remembering

They say humanity is awakening from a deep and long sleep. Yes, this is true. But I like to specify it not so much as an awakening but more of a remembering, because when you wake from a dream, you remember you who are and have always been.
We already know, we have just been made to forget. There will continue to be distraction into forgetfulness and amnesia, which is why it takes great discipline to not fall for the bait and keep true to your north star, instead.
The distinction between awakening and remembering is an important one, because you are not learning anything new, you are remembering what you already know and that is very empowering. It’s empowering because it shows you that it’s all already within you. All you need to do is connect in. The remembering will naturally be there within you.